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		<title>By: TStrump</title>
		<link>http://financefreelancelife.com/2009/05/19/when-to-give-financial-advice/#comment-46475</link>
		<dc:creator>TStrump</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 20:40:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have no problem sharing my mistakes, of which there are many.
I think it makes for better reading and hopefully, readers can learn and save some money.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;TStrump’s last blog post: &lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheStrump-FinancialBlog/~3/cQ0KpwfjmsE/getting-out-of-the-home-office&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Getting Out of the Home Office&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have no problem sharing my mistakes, of which there are many.<br />
I think it makes for better reading and hopefully, readers can learn and save some money.</p>
<p><abbr><em>TStrump’s last blog post: <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheStrump-FinancialBlog/~3/cQ0KpwfjmsE/getting-out-of-the-home-office" rel="nofollow">Getting Out of the Home Office</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: This Week in Review - Buy My Condo Edition &#124; The Personal Finance Playbook</title>
		<link>http://financefreelancelife.com/2009/05/19/when-to-give-financial-advice/#comment-46261</link>
		<dc:creator>This Week in Review - Buy My Condo Edition &#124; The Personal Finance Playbook</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 12:07:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Bragging and Blogging @ Finance for a Freelance Life - Mrs. Micah offers you this tip if you&#8217;re having a lot of success, be humble about it.  I couldn&#8217;t agree more.  I love the voice she writes with.  I would be that she&#8217;s a very humble person.  I&#8217;ve mentioned before that a very authoritative voice kind of turns me off.  Like I mention above with Penelope, it takes courage to be vulnerable and honest - Mrs. Micah realizes that.  Check it out. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Bragging and Blogging @ Finance for a Freelance Life &#8211; Mrs. Micah offers you this tip if you&#8217;re having a lot of success, be humble about it.  I couldn&#8217;t agree more.  I love the voice she writes with.  I would be that she&#8217;s a very humble person.  I&#8217;ve mentioned before that a very authoritative voice kind of turns me off.  Like I mention above with Penelope, it takes courage to be vulnerable and honest &#8211; Mrs. Micah realizes that.  Check it out. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly from Almost Frugal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly from Almost Frugal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 14:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, I&#039;m definitely of the camp that my blog is about *learning* to be frugal- I&#039;ve never pretended to be an expert!

I do have to agree with the above commenter who said that women have a tendency to downplay or backpedal themselves, although I don&#039;t think this was what Cath was arguing.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kelly from Almost Frugal’s last blog post: &lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/AlmostFrugal/~3/xmkyyZqJUC4/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Turning a Hobby Into a Job&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I&#8217;m definitely of the camp that my blog is about *learning* to be frugal- I&#8217;ve never pretended to be an expert!</p>
<p>I do have to agree with the above commenter who said that women have a tendency to downplay or backpedal themselves, although I don&#8217;t think this was what Cath was arguing.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Kelly from Almost Frugal’s last blog post: <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/AlmostFrugal/~3/xmkyyZqJUC4/" rel="nofollow">Turning a Hobby Into a Job</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Abigail</title>
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		<dc:creator>Abigail</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 07:56:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I often have results that are less than ideal. As someone who deals with both depression and fatigue on a daily basis, there are so many ways that I frustrate my inherent Type A personality. 

I think it&#039;s okay, though. Because there are tons of PF blogs about how to do things perfectly. My blog is about personal finance in the real world. The one when you&#039;re busy and exhausted and still have eight more things to do by tomorrow. And if you&#039;re *really* good, you&#039;ll get four done. 

It&#039;s about how to make the best of the abilities you do have, rather than focus on all the things you&#039;re not doing by the PF book. My natural inclination is the latter. But I&#039;m working hard on the former. Even people who don&#039;t have disabilities are going to be frustrated by their basic human natures. So everyone can relate to mistakes made, and most can share stories about how they dealt with the repercussions of the mistakes or at least learned to avoid it in the future.

The thing to remember is that most PF bloggers aren&#039;t PF experts. They&#039;re experts at their own finances. They&#039;re experts at what works for them (and perhaps people they know). When people want advice, they read books. When they want inspiration or ideas or just a companion down the long road of debt reduction, then they come to blogs.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Abigail’s last blog post: &lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/IPickUpPennies/~3/bo3r3J4eNbs/house-shouldnt-be-priority.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A house shouldn&#039;t be a priority&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I often have results that are less than ideal. As someone who deals with both depression and fatigue on a daily basis, there are so many ways that I frustrate my inherent Type A personality. </p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s okay, though. Because there are tons of PF blogs about how to do things perfectly. My blog is about personal finance in the real world. The one when you&#8217;re busy and exhausted and still have eight more things to do by tomorrow. And if you&#8217;re *really* good, you&#8217;ll get four done. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s about how to make the best of the abilities you do have, rather than focus on all the things you&#8217;re not doing by the PF book. My natural inclination is the latter. But I&#8217;m working hard on the former. Even people who don&#8217;t have disabilities are going to be frustrated by their basic human natures. So everyone can relate to mistakes made, and most can share stories about how they dealt with the repercussions of the mistakes or at least learned to avoid it in the future.</p>
<p>The thing to remember is that most PF bloggers aren&#8217;t PF experts. They&#8217;re experts at their own finances. They&#8217;re experts at what works for them (and perhaps people they know). When people want advice, they read books. When they want inspiration or ideas or just a companion down the long road of debt reduction, then they come to blogs.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Abigail’s last blog post: <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/IPickUpPennies/~3/bo3r3J4eNbs/house-shouldnt-be-priority.html" rel="nofollow">A house shouldn&#8217;t be a priority</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Grace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 19:51:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When it comes to discussing one&#039;s small business, I&#039;m firmly in the &quot;keep it positive&quot; camp.  I think people are more drawn to success when it comes to using business services.

But personal finance blogging?  There, the daily ups and downs, mistakes and visits from Murphy are all important and actually the most helpful.

However, while I try to post honestly, I sometimes obscure my less-than-stellar financial moves.  For example, regular readers know that I tend to reduce my indebtedness (which is mostly mortgage and credit card debt) by around $800 a month--yet recently, I only managed an $81 reduction.  Hmm--could a faithful reader detect some credit card useage in there?

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Grace’s last blog post: &lt;a href=&quot;http://gracefulretirement.blogspot.com/2009/05/moving-florence-up-front.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Moving Florence Up Front&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When it comes to discussing one&#8217;s small business, I&#8217;m firmly in the &#8220;keep it positive&#8221; camp.  I think people are more drawn to success when it comes to using business services.</p>
<p>But personal finance blogging?  There, the daily ups and downs, mistakes and visits from Murphy are all important and actually the most helpful.</p>
<p>However, while I try to post honestly, I sometimes obscure my less-than-stellar financial moves.  For example, regular readers know that I tend to reduce my indebtedness (which is mostly mortgage and credit card debt) by around $800 a month&#8211;yet recently, I only managed an $81 reduction.  Hmm&#8211;could a faithful reader detect some credit card useage in there?</p>
<p><abbr><em>Grace’s last blog post: <a href="http://gracefulretirement.blogspot.com/2009/05/moving-florence-up-front.html" rel="nofollow">Moving Florence Up Front</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: mrsmicah</title>
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		<dc:creator>mrsmicah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 14:18:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To be fair, Dogatemyfinances, she was writing about not &lt;strong&gt;pretending&lt;/strong&gt; to be successful if you&#039;re struggling. She also wrote about not being down on your business or your self when communicating with clients (her second point in the article). I&#039;m sorry if I misrepresented that.

There are some great comments on the article about ways in which you can be honest about where your business is but frame it in terms of successes, not failures.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To be fair, Dogatemyfinances, she was writing about not <strong>pretending</strong> to be successful if you&#8217;re struggling. She also wrote about not being down on your business or your self when communicating with clients (her second point in the article). I&#8217;m sorry if I misrepresented that.</p>
<p>There are some great comments on the article about ways in which you can be honest about where your business is but frame it in terms of successes, not failures.</p>
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		<title>By: dogatemyfinances</title>
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		<dc:creator>dogatemyfinances</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 13:53:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Absurd.

Only a woman would write an absurd article that you should dilute your success or think about whether you really are successful.  No man would ever think that way.

She thinks they won&#039;t buy from you if you have a pile of cash.  What, she likes buying from someone about to go under?  Success is a GOOD THING in a small business.  It means you DELIVER.

As for blogging, people like the schadenfreude posts about failure in business, but the success ones are really more useful.  Like how to get an accountant, keep your clients, and so on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absurd.</p>
<p>Only a woman would write an absurd article that you should dilute your success or think about whether you really are successful.  No man would ever think that way.</p>
<p>She thinks they won&#8217;t buy from you if you have a pile of cash.  What, she likes buying from someone about to go under?  Success is a GOOD THING in a small business.  It means you DELIVER.</p>
<p>As for blogging, people like the schadenfreude posts about failure in business, but the success ones are really more useful.  Like how to get an accountant, keep your clients, and so on.</p>
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		<title>By: Writer Dad</title>
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		<dc:creator>Writer Dad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 13:36:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We only fall so that we can learn to stand. I can&#039;t think of too many mistakes that haven&#039;t helped me out in some way (so long as I took the time to let them). To err is human, to admit it is cool.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We only fall so that we can learn to stand. I can&#8217;t think of too many mistakes that haven&#8217;t helped me out in some way (so long as I took the time to let them). To err is human, to admit it is cool.</p>
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