Comments on: The Secret to Living in a Sweet House / Apartment : Roommates http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/06/27/the-secret-to-living-in-a-sweet-house-apartment-roommates/ Fri, 19 Mar 2010 13:56:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: fathersez http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/06/27/the-secret-to-living-in-a-sweet-house-apartment-roommates/#comment-20257 fathersez Sun, 29 Jun 2008 14:22:04 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/?p=676#comment-20257 Both my elder girls have just been taken in as boarders. They are staying separately as their work places are too far apart. They are staying with single mothers now, and they plan to get their own apartment and share once they are a little more settled. Both my elder girls have just been taken in as boarders.

They are staying separately as their work places are too far apart.

They are staying with single mothers now, and they plan to get their own apartment and share once they are a little more settled.

]]> By: Susan http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/06/27/the-secret-to-living-in-a-sweet-house-apartment-roommates/#comment-20244 Susan Sun, 29 Jun 2008 01:45:45 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/?p=676#comment-20244 I wouldn't want roommates (other than my husband) now that I'm married. Hubby and I have our own way of doing things, our own schedule, so living with a roommate wouldn't appeal to us. Plus, there goes the parading around the house naked! (Whoa, did I just say that?!) ;) I can see having a roommate as a single person, though, that is if you get a really cool roommate! Otherwise, it could be a very unpleasant living situation, even if you're saving money! I wouldn’t want roommates (other than my husband) now that I’m married. Hubby and I have our own way of doing things, our own schedule, so living with a roommate wouldn’t appeal to us. Plus, there goes the parading around the house naked!
(Whoa, did I just say that?!) ;)

I can see having a roommate as a single person, though, that is if you get a really cool roommate! Otherwise, it could be a very unpleasant living situation, even if you’re saving money!

]]> By: Frugal Vet Tech http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/06/27/the-secret-to-living-in-a-sweet-house-apartment-roommates/#comment-20226 Frugal Vet Tech Sat, 28 Jun 2008 16:15:47 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/?p=676#comment-20226 I occasionally think about hubby and I doing something like that when we have the room (we're in a one bedroom apartment right now), but I don't think we'd like it much. Perhaps we'd consider it if we had a house with a second level, but even then, I'm not sure. We like our space and privacy. If we ever had a friend or family member that needed a place to stay we certainly wouldn't hesitate to offer them a place to crash for a while. In fact, shortly after we were married, we ended up with a "cousin" (really long story) of mine living with us in our tiny apartment because she had no where else to go. It was rather crowded, but otherwise it worked out fairly well. My parents have a gal that lives with them and that's worked out really well, but they didn't set out to find someone to rent a room from them. My mom and the gal work at the same place (and she's from the same town I grew up in), so got an apartment together as a matter of convenience. Then, my parents bought a house (they had two separate residences for a while due to having jobs three hours apart before getting our old place sold) and invited her to move with them. The gal pretty much has the whole downstairs to herself and can, of course, use the kitchen and what-not when she needs or wants to. It's worked out quite well. So well, in fact, that my dad told her that when she gets married she can't move out! :) I occasionally think about hubby and I doing something like that when we have the room (we’re in a one bedroom apartment right now), but I don’t think we’d like it much. Perhaps we’d consider it if we had a house with a second level, but even then, I’m not sure. We like our space and privacy. If we ever had a friend or family member that needed a place to stay we certainly wouldn’t hesitate to offer them a place to crash for a while. In fact, shortly after we were married, we ended up with a “cousin” (really long story) of mine living with us in our tiny apartment because she had no where else to go. It was rather crowded, but otherwise it worked out fairly well.

My parents have a gal that lives with them and that’s worked out really well, but they didn’t set out to find someone to rent a room from them. My mom and the gal work at the same place (and she’s from the same town I grew up in), so got an apartment together as a matter of convenience. Then, my parents bought a house (they had two separate residences for a while due to having jobs three hours apart before getting our old place sold) and invited her to move with them. The gal pretty much has the whole downstairs to herself and can, of course, use the kitchen and what-not when she needs or wants to. It’s worked out quite well. So well, in fact, that my dad told her that when she gets married she can’t move out! :)

]]> By: Sara http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/06/27/the-secret-to-living-in-a-sweet-house-apartment-roommates/#comment-20204 Sara Sat, 28 Jun 2008 02:08:47 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/?p=676#comment-20204 I know that the math makes total sense, but you couldn't pay me enough to take on roommates. (I'm actually shuddering right now.) I would downsize to a cheaper, less attractive home and be assured of always walking into a peaceful, welcoming environment before repeating some of my previous roommate experiences. I know that the math makes total sense, but you couldn’t pay me enough to take on roommates. (I’m actually shuddering right now.) I would downsize to a cheaper, less attractive home and be assured of always walking into a peaceful, welcoming environment before repeating some of my previous roommate experiences.

]]> By: Meg from FruWiki & All About Appearances http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/06/27/the-secret-to-living-in-a-sweet-house-apartment-roommates/#comment-20193 Meg from FruWiki & All About Appearances Fri, 27 Jun 2008 21:16:44 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/?p=676#comment-20193 We have the best of both worlds. My husband and I own a home, but we rent out our spare bedroom to a close friend. Some people may think it's weird, but we see it as a way to spend more time with friends while helping them out and... yes... making a few hundred bucks a month. Sometimes we wonder what people think since no, there's nothing going on between us and our friend Katy other than a close friendship. We live in a college town, though, so having roommates isn't unusual, just the fact that we're married. It's great to have our friend staying with us as well as to have extra income and even extra help around the house. She's actually one of 5 roommates we've had since moving here (one was my brother-in-law, but the others were gal pals). Some were better to live with than others, but it's worked really well for us in general. And when she moves out, we'll probably have another roommate. In fact, there are three people right now who have their eyes on her room -- which certainly makes us feel loved. And of course, it's a great deal for them. They get to live in an actual house, with a yard even, and they don't have to do a lot of the housework -- plus it's a whole lot cheaper for them than it would be to rent around here. We have the best of both worlds. My husband and I own a home, but we rent out our spare bedroom to a close friend. Some people may think it’s weird, but we see it as a way to spend more time with friends while helping them out and… yes… making a few hundred bucks a month.

Sometimes we wonder what people think since no, there’s nothing going on between us and our friend Katy other than a close friendship. We live in a college town, though, so having roommates isn’t unusual, just the fact that we’re married.

It’s great to have our friend staying with us as well as to have extra income and even extra help around the house. She’s actually one of 5 roommates we’ve had since moving here (one was my brother-in-law, but the others were gal pals). Some were better to live with than others, but it’s worked really well for us in general. And when she moves out, we’ll probably have another roommate. In fact, there are three people right now who have their eyes on her room — which certainly makes us feel loved. And of course, it’s a great deal for them. They get to live in an actual house, with a yard even, and they don’t have to do a lot of the housework — plus it’s a whole lot cheaper for them than it would be to rent around here.

]]> By: Lisa http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/06/27/the-secret-to-living-in-a-sweet-house-apartment-roommates/#comment-20192 Lisa Fri, 27 Jun 2008 20:54:43 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/?p=676#comment-20192 I'm currently a "boarder" in a house owned by a family- husband/wife and 3 year old. I admit at first I was skeptical and was leaning towards finding roommates my own age, but seeing the house an dmeeting the family convinced me. I think I'm getting a great deal and because I don't plan to be in the area more than a year I think it's worth it. Some of my friends think it's weird too, but those who have seen the place and see what I end up getting for my money are normally impressed or jealous. In the end I think it depends on what you want out of the situation. I couldn't do this if I wanted to through crazy parties with my friends all the time, but that's not my thing. A lot depends on the family and the "boarder". I don't interact a lot with the family, but we get along fine, say hi and have basic conversation. I have almost half the house to myself other than the shared kitchen. If the border is friends with the family then the extra space probably isn't as much the issue. I probably wouldn't do this for too long, but for now I find this a good solution to saving money without sacrificing anything- and often gaining nice living space. I’m currently a “boarder” in a house owned by a family- husband/wife and 3 year old. I admit at first I was skeptical and was leaning towards finding roommates my own age, but seeing the house an dmeeting the family convinced me. I think I’m getting a great deal and because I don’t plan to be in the area more than a year I think it’s worth it. Some of my friends think it’s weird too, but those who have seen the place and see what I end up getting for my money are normally impressed or jealous.
In the end I think it depends on what you want out of the situation. I couldn’t do this if I wanted to through crazy parties with my friends all the time, but that’s not my thing. A lot depends on the family and the “boarder”. I don’t interact a lot with the family, but we get along fine, say hi and have basic conversation. I have almost half the house to myself other than the shared kitchen. If the border is friends with the family then the extra space probably isn’t as much the issue.
I probably wouldn’t do this for too long, but for now I find this a good solution to saving money without sacrificing anything- and often gaining nice living space.

]]> By: Healthy Amelia http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/06/27/the-secret-to-living-in-a-sweet-house-apartment-roommates/#comment-20189 Healthy Amelia Fri, 27 Jun 2008 19:38:30 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/?p=676#comment-20189 Since moving to DC in 2000, I’ve lived in every imaginable living situation. Roommates in apartments, roommates in a house, studio on my own… For the past 4 years, though, I’ve lived with my now-husband of almost 3 years in a tiny one bedroom basement apartment in our landlady’s house. People are always asking about why we don’t get something bigger or buy a house. And why haven’t you had kids yet? The most important thing is finding out what works for you (and your partner, if applicable). We love where we live, our landlady and her family, and the low rent. I’m in the final stages of paying off my debt so we will move into “save up for a house” mode soon. There is no need to rush it and there’s no reason to listen to or take to heart others’ expectations of where you should be. We won’t rush our life stages or get in over our heads to please anyone else. It’s our life and we have to live it. Since moving to DC in 2000, I’ve lived in every imaginable living situation. Roommates in apartments, roommates in a house, studio on my own… For the past 4 years, though, I’ve lived with my now-husband of almost 3 years in a tiny one bedroom basement apartment in our landlady’s house. People are always asking about why we don’t get something bigger or buy a house. And why haven’t you had kids yet?

The most important thing is finding out what works for you (and your partner, if applicable). We love where we live, our landlady and her family, and the low rent. I’m in the final stages of paying off my debt so we will move into “save up for a house” mode soon. There is no need to rush it and there’s no reason to listen to or take to heart others’ expectations of where you should be. We won’t rush our life stages or get in over our heads to please anyone else. It’s our life and we have to live it.

]]> By: Meagan http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/06/27/the-secret-to-living-in-a-sweet-house-apartment-roommates/#comment-20187 Meagan Fri, 27 Jun 2008 18:12:44 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/?p=676#comment-20187 My husband and I have had a roommate for the past two years, which is a little more than half of our married life together. We are both students and splitting rent and bills has kept our student loan debt down substantially. Our roommate is my former college roommate who is attending the same graduate school. People do think it's strange at first usually, but they get over it. We live in Texas which is known for low cost of living so I think it is a little more weird here than in a high cost of living location. We are moving at the end of July and I have to say that, while grateful for the opportunities having a roommate has presented for us, I can't wait to have a place of our own again. My husband and I have had a roommate for the past two years, which is a little more than half of our married life together. We are both students and splitting rent and bills has kept our student loan debt down substantially. Our roommate is my former college roommate who is attending the same graduate school. People do think it’s strange at first usually, but they get over it. We live in Texas which is known for low cost of living so I think it is a little more weird here than in a high cost of living location. We are moving at the end of July and I have to say that, while grateful for the opportunities having a roommate has presented for us, I can’t wait to have a place of our own again.

]]> By: deepali http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/06/27/the-secret-to-living-in-a-sweet-house-apartment-roommates/#comment-20185 deepali Fri, 27 Jun 2008 17:53:16 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/?p=676#comment-20185 Oh. The idea of taking in boarders/friends/family doesn't seem odd to me in the slightest! Funny how changing a word makes a world of a difference! Oh. The idea of taking in boarders/friends/family doesn’t seem odd to me in the slightest! Funny how changing a word makes a world of a difference!

]]> By: Aaron http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/06/27/the-secret-to-living-in-a-sweet-house-apartment-roommates/#comment-20183 Aaron Fri, 27 Jun 2008 17:36:40 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/?p=676#comment-20183 I think I can contribute to this conversation. My wife and I own (well, we bought it; not paid off yet) our house. Purchased it about 3 years ago. It's 3BR, 2BA upstairs (1 bath is in the master bedroom), and a big game/great room, office, workout room/ 1/2 BA downstairs. Shortly after purchasing it, one of our friends fell on some hard times. His engagement fell through, and the 'baby momma/fiance' threw him out. He didn't make the greatest PF decisions (honestly, who am *I* to talk) so we invited him to move in. No talk of $$ or anything just helping a friend. A 'help out when you can' deal. After a while, he started chipping in regularly (about $300 and buying groceries) which was close to half our mortgage. The wife and I got to thinking damn; this is a good way to get extra debt repayment money. He's since moved out, but we picked up another roomate (now friend) that's in the AirForce and stationed at the base near our home. The money has gone up a bit, but we are still using it for the same stuff; every month it goes straight to whatever debt we are working on OR it goes to our emergency/savings fund. In my opinion, it works out well for everyone. The roommate gets a GREAT deal on housing, and I get a large debt snowflake. Personally, I would rent out the third bedroom also or rent them both to perhaps a single parent and child but I'm not certain how my wife feels about that. I think I can contribute to this conversation. My wife and I own (well, we bought it; not paid off yet) our house. Purchased it about 3 years ago. It’s 3BR, 2BA upstairs (1 bath is in the master bedroom), and a big game/great room, office, workout room/ 1/2 BA downstairs.

Shortly after purchasing it, one of our friends fell on some hard times. His engagement fell through, and the ‘baby momma/fiance’ threw him out. He didn’t make the greatest PF decisions (honestly, who am *I* to talk) so we invited him to move in. No talk of $$ or anything just helping a friend. A ‘help out when you can’ deal. After a while, he started chipping in regularly (about $300 and buying groceries) which was close to half our mortgage. The wife and I got to thinking damn; this is a good way to get extra debt repayment money.

He’s since moved out, but we picked up another roomate (now friend) that’s in the AirForce and stationed at the base near our home. The money has gone up a bit, but we are still using it for the same stuff; every month it goes straight to whatever debt we are working on OR it goes to our emergency/savings fund. In my opinion, it works out well for everyone. The roommate gets a GREAT deal on housing, and I get a large debt snowflake.

Personally, I would rent out the third bedroom also or rent them both to perhaps a single parent and child but I’m not certain how my wife feels about that.

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