Comments on: How to Hide Money from an Abusive Husband or Wife Part 1 — Banking http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/ Tue, 04 Dec 2012 13:59:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.4.1 By: Teresa http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-108720 Teresa Fri, 17 Feb 2012 08:42:49 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-108720 I personally don’t hide any money from my husband, and I’m positive he doesn’t either. Fortunately, we are both on the same page when it comes to our finances. I do not have a secret account. However, I think just that almost everyone has once tried to hide or “minimize” his or her expenses. Telling your spouse you spent less on an item then you actually did. This is not healthy behavior, but as humans we are prone to deceiving others and ourselves in order to indulge in unhealthy behavior. It’s a reality that we might change some day. I personally don’t hide any money from my husband, and I’m positive he doesn’t either. Fortunately, we are both on the same page when it comes to our finances. I do not have a secret account. However, I think just that almost everyone has once tried to hide or “minimize” his or her expenses. Telling your spouse you spent less on an item then you actually did. This is not healthy behavior, but as humans we are prone to deceiving others and ourselves in order to indulge in unhealthy behavior. It’s a reality that we might change some day.

]]> By: Dan Simmons http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-67170 Dan Simmons Tue, 18 May 2010 20:17:57 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-67170 Yes, I think you're right. Yes, I think you’re right.

]]> By: Mrs. Micah http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-67169 Mrs. Micah Tue, 18 May 2010 20:11:07 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-67169 @<strong>Dan</strong> actually, what you just said was that they probably are. You'd just expand it to be one of mutual abuse from both parties., not a single abuser. Either way it's still an abusive relationship. @Dan actually, what you just said was that they probably are. You’d just expand it to be one of mutual abuse from both parties., not a single abuser. Either way it’s still an abusive relationship.

]]> By: Dan Simmons http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-67168 Dan Simmons Tue, 18 May 2010 20:04:56 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-67168 "This site supports people who are victims of verbal abuse and controlling, which are just as wrong as physical or sexual abuse [...] rule of thumb: If you wonder that you might be, you probably are." Mmmmmmmm. I deplore physical, sexual and emotional abuse. But the latter category is not as straightforward. There are many cases where both parties are being emotionally abusive. So I don't agree that if one of them wonders if they are in an abusive relationship they probably are. “This site supports people who are victims of verbal abuse and controlling, which are just as wrong as physical or sexual abuse [...] rule of thumb: If you wonder that you might be, you probably are.”

Mmmmmmmm.

I deplore physical, sexual and emotional abuse. But the latter category is not as straightforward. There are many cases where both parties are being emotionally abusive. So I don’t agree that if one of them wonders if they are in an abusive relationship they probably are.

]]> By: Help Me On This: How to Hide Money from an Abusive Husband or Wife http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-20757 Help Me On This: How to Hide Money from an Abusive Husband or Wife Wed, 09 Jul 2008 21:54:08 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-20757 [...] posts this post led to: Part 1 - Banking, Part 2 - How She Escaped, Part 3 - ATM [...] [...] posts this post led to: Part 1 – Banking, Part 2 – How She Escaped, Part 3 – ATM [...]

]]> By: Meet The M-Network: An Interview With Mrs. Micah. | My Two Dollars http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-18018 Meet The M-Network: An Interview With Mrs. Micah. | My Two Dollars Wed, 07 May 2008 14:00:26 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-18018 [...] I like my series on hiding money from an abusive spouse. [...] [...] I like my series on hiding money from an abusive spouse. [...]

]]> By: How to Hide Money from an Abusive Husband or Wife Part 3 — ATM Withdrawals http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-14839 How to Hide Money from an Abusive Husband or Wife Part 3 — ATM Withdrawals Wed, 19 Mar 2008 01:02:44 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-14839 [...] recently posted about some of the places to hide money from an abusive husband or wife. Because bank accounts have issues with addresses, taxes, [...] [...] recently posted about some of the places to hide money from an abusive husband or wife. Because bank accounts have issues with addresses, taxes, [...]

]]> By: Weekend wrap up | Pinching Copper http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-14577 Weekend wrap up | Pinching Copper Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:33:10 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-14577 [...] Micah shared how to hide money from an abusive spouse. Just don’t tell my [...] [...] Micah shared how to hide money from an abusive spouse. Just don’t tell my [...]

]]> By: Carnival Roundup Time! http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-14369 Carnival Roundup Time! Thu, 13 Mar 2008 01:03:27 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-14369 [...] Personal Finance was at Four-Pillars this week. While I wasn’t a “top hoser,” my article on hiding money from an abusive husband or wife was apparently a “best skater.” Some other good [...] [...] Personal Finance was at Four-Pillars this week. While I wasn’t a “top hoser,” my article on hiding money from an abusive husband or wife was apparently a “best skater.” Some other good [...]

]]> By: Carnival of Personal Finance #143 - Oh Canada Edition http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-14078 Carnival of Personal Finance #143 - Oh Canada Edition Mon, 10 Mar 2008 02:13:43 +0000 http://financefreelancelife.com/2008/03/02/how-to-hide-money-from-an-abuse-husband-or-wife-part-1-banking/#comment-14078 [...] Mrs. Micah tells us how to hide money from an abusive spouse. [...] [...] Mrs. Micah tells us how to hide money from an abusive spouse. [...]

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